How can I overcome feelings of rejection?
We are all prone to disappointment and feelings of rejection, and that is especially true in the aftermath of a broken relationship. However, as born-again believers we have a resource in God’s Word that can bring comfort and clarity to the situation. One person’s rejection does not mean we are unlovable. We can allow that…
What is true friendship according to the Bible?
The Lord Jesus Christ gave us the definition of a true friend: “Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command. I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I…
What does the Bible say about falling in love?
To “fall in love” is to become enamored with someone or to begin to feel love for him or her. Falling in love is an expression describing one’s emotional state when the happy feelings of what’s assumed to be love start to grip the soul. The Bible does not speak of falling in love, but…
What does the Bible say about toxic relationships?
The word toxic means “poisonous.” Toxic relationships are those that poison our peace and our ability to enjoy another person. A toxic relationship will leave one exhausted, frustrated, and, in some cases, depressed. Toxic relationships can affect business partnerships, sports teams, and families. Some disharmony in a relationship is normal; however, some people inject poison…
What does it mean to love one another?
In John 13:34 Jesus taught, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.” Then He added, “By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another” (verse 35). How do we do this? What does it mean to…
How should a Christian act toward a friend who comes out of the closet (as gay or trans)?
As Christians living in today’s culture, it is increasingly likely that we will have some friends come out of the closet as “gay” or “trans,” and we need to respond appropriately. We must realize certain facts about God and the human sin nature so that we will have a proper perspective toward others, including friends…
How can I know if I am in love?
Love is a very powerful emotion. It motivates much of our lives. We make many important decisions based on this emotion, and even get married because we feel that we are “in love.” This may be the reason about half of all first marriages end in divorce. The Bible teaches us that true love is…
How can I overcome the pain of betrayal?
Betrayal is a gross violation of trust and can be one of the most devastating forms of pain inflicted upon a human being. The suffering of betrayal is often magnified by a sense of vulnerability and exposure. For many, the pain of betrayal is worse than physical violence, deceit, or prejudice. Betrayal destroys the foundation…
What is the difference between chastity and celibacy?
The terms chastity and celibacy are sometimes used interchangeably, but they have different meanings and involve different commitments. Chastity is the state of being innocent regarding sexual sin. The word chastity, with its adjective form, chaste, also carries the connotation of moral purity and cleanness. Regardless of marital status, believers should be chaste. Our sexuality…
What is toxic positivity?
Toxic positivity is an unhealthy insistence on viewing life from a positive perspective, regardless of the circumstances or emotions a person is experiencing. Toxic positivity goes beyond optimism and “positive thinking”; it creates a façade of cheeriness and denies all negative emotions. It leads to a false projection of hopefulness and brightness. Studies and life…